REACTION....?????

ၾကင္နာမႈေတြရခ်င္တဲ႔ ငါ...
နာၾကင္မႈေတြရခဲ႔တဲ႔အျဖစ္...
ငါရဲ႔ခ်စ္ျခင္းေတြကို
မင္းကအမုန္းနဲ႔ဥေပကၡာျပဳ
ငါစလံုးနဲ႔ (စ) ခဲ႔တဲ႔ ...ဘ၀ဇာတ္လမ္းတစ္ပုဒ္ကို
နင္က ဆလိမ္နဲ႔ (ဆ) အဆံုးသတ္
ေနာက္ဆံုးအရံႈး အျမတ္မထည့္တြက္ေပမယ့္
အခ်စ္မရွိေတာ့တဲ႔ ငါဘ၀နဲ႔
ကြဲအက္ေနတဲ႔ နွလံုးသားတစ္စံုသာလွ်င္
ၾကြင္းက်န္ခဲ႔တယ္.............

The last and the most powerful phrase.."I love you"

                

                 To say "I love you " and mean it with all your heart has remarkable power. This powerful phrase encompasses all the others. The way we feel about people...whether it is romantic love, family relationships or even close friendships...is a form of love.

              Love is a warmer way to express ourselves than saying "I respect you" or "I believe in you". It's more tender way of expressing our feelings for people we admire and appreciate. Love is a term of great trust and belief...the strongest term you can use to speak to another person if you feel that way about them. Saying "I love you" is quite a step for most people.

              We have to learn to think about how we really feel about other people, be willing to express those feelings and begin to say "I love you". Love exists, not just within a husband-and-wife relationship or guy-and-girl romance. There are different types of love that we need to express.

              "I love you" is an especially powerful when said to children. Those words make them feel protected, cared about, and believed in that the person saying that words is really special. And the most important to express love is with our families. Family is the foundation of our faith and values. So...give them the gift of your life experience. Building a firm foundation of family takes work but pays dividends by ensuring each generation i instilled with the faith and values that are at the heart of abundant lives and a moral society.

               Love is all around us. We need to look for and nurturer love...for our God who blesses us richly...for marriages, for families, for friends, and for our communities. Let's not just think about saying "I love you" and regret later that we didn't say it. Lets take opportunity to tell our loved ones...from our hearts..."I love you."

                If you can't say the words.., at leat give someone a hug. And make it a big one!

                Let's all use our hearts. Say "I love you". With this and all other powerful phrases, we all can make our homes, communities and world to be more positive places to live...Try it now!

" I respect you "

               
                Saying the words " I respect you " is very powerful, but respect really must be earned and demostrated. If you want to be respected, you must respect others. People know when you value and respect them and when you dont. It's difficult to hide disrespect, and people can sense your attitude almost instinctively.

              It's been said there are two types of people...those who enter a room and say,"Here I am!"...and those who come in and say,"Ah! There you are." We need to be the second type. Earning and showing respect begins with listening to people. Everyone has some achievement in his or her life. If you ask someone a few question and learn a little about that person, you'll discover reasons to say, " I respect you ".

               Discovering reasons to respect people is actually easy,because everybody is happy to talk about themselves. Showing interest in everyone we meet is one of the highest forms of respect. We need to be interested in people and listen to them, but showing and earning respect also can be as simple as remembering names and faces.

                We all want and need to be respected. If you want respect, you need to show your respect by taking an interest in other people. Listen to people who are eager to share with you the proud moments of their lives. You'll quickly discover something about them for which you can say, "I respect you." In so doing, you will also earn their respect and as a respected person, you will gain "self-respect".

" I trust you "

              
              " I trust you " is another powerful phrase for positive people. The success of our society depends on trusting that someone will do a good job, trusting each other to be honest, trusting that people will keep their promises. We need trust among friends and families. Our parents trust us and we also trust them. Many of us are given great responsibilities that are all based on trust.

               Trust is developed through experience and it means we deliver as promised. It can be easily destroyed when we fail to deliver as promised or go back on our world. And it is essential in a friendship, but we also need trust in our community. You can appreciate what it means when someone bestows the honour upon you of saying "I trust you".

               We need to say "I trust you" as our sign of the confidence we hold in people with whom we share a special bond in supporting relationships. Telling someone "I trust you" sends a special message. We all should look forward to opportunity to tell our parents, friends or children.."I trust you!"

                               

" I need You "

             
               The lives of millions of people can depend on the skills of a few people who are greatly needed. You also may know oof individuals in your coomunity who are needed. We need so many people that we tend to take them for granted. Think about the garbage man. Think of a world without peopleto haul away our trash. It bears repeating because it's the petfect example of " I need you! "

                It's important that we say "I need you". I need you to solve this problem. I need you to work with us. We really need you around here...... There is nothing wrong with learning to tell people that you are dependent upon them.

                " I need you " is such a powerful phrase for positive people because it acknowledges that each person is created by God, and God created each of us for a purpose and to fulfill a need.

                 Organization in which people feel they are not needed are doomed to failure or at least a bumpy ride of uncertainty and dissatisfaction. None of us is too important or self-sufficient not to need other people. Why not creat a more positive atmosphere in our homes, classes, workspaces, and communities by telling people, " I need you " ?

" Thank You! "

            Remember..! When you were little and even adult....when someone gave you a piece of candy or small gift.., one of your parents prompted you with "What do you say?" I'm sure that they were, of course, trying to get you to say " Thank you ".

            "Thank you " is an acknowledgement of the other person's generosity. It recognizes the other person's kindness and the effort that person made to think of us. "Thank you" says we appreciate a job well done and the time someone devoted to develop his or her talents to perform for us or provide a skilled service.

             If you are someone who is learning something new each day, thank your teachers. If you have fond memories of childhood and have grown into a productive adult..., thank your parents. Thank your grandparents for their wisdom. If you feel safe and secure in your home, community and country.., thank your neighbours, police officer or a member of the military.

               Beyound saying " Thank you ", adjust your attitude each day to being thankful for the abundance of God's blessings. If you and your family are healthy, have a roof over your head, food on the table, clothes on your back. and the gifts of love, laughter, and leisure, give thanks to God for His many blessings. 

                 And dont forget to share a portion of God's blessings with those who have far fewer blessings to count. " Thankfulness " is powerful and one of the keys to a more positive society.

"Pyin Oo Lwin"...The highland city of Myanmar

              Today I'd like to introduce all of you to one of the niciest citiest in Myanmar. It's name is "Pyin Oo Lwin", the highland city of Myanmar. It's also called "Pan-Myo-Daw"...it means "the royal city of flowers". In this city, you can enjoy cool and clean weather avoid hot and humid summer heat and also the beauty of nature.

                                           

              Pyin Oo Lwin is 1078 meters above the sea-level and nearly 8-10 degree Celsius cooler than the plain. It's the perfect climate for flowers, fruits, and vegetations. It's also well-known for its colonial style houses with large compuonds and pine trees, eucalyptus and silver-oak abound in town around.

             For the ultimate hoticultural enjoyment, visitors all need to visit to the "National Kandawgyi Garden", also called "Pyin Oo Lwin Botanical Garden". It's a nice and green garden which stretches over a wide area just on the outskirts of Pyin Oo Lwin. There are some birds and nice walkways around the pond and also in the forest. Moreover, several seasonal flowers and hundreds of wild orchids from different parts of the country are collected and displayed in the "Orchid Green House". So, the garden becomes one of the world class botanical gardens. And there are also so many waterfalls in and around the city where you can find the extraordaniry peace.

             The city is just 50 km from the second capital of Myanmar. You can get there by any kinds of transport. Many visitors usually visit a day-trip to Pyin Oo Lwin. And you dont need to worry to get lost, you can ask anyone on the way..i mean local...because all of the people are very friendly, honest and helpful. But actually only one day is not enough to stay and enjoy the city. And if you prefer to enjoy the peace and quiteness, the late afternoon might be the best time for a visit to the garden. So...I recommend all of you to come and visit to Myanmar and not to miss to go Pyin Oo Lwin.

                                         "Warmly Welcome to Myanmar!"

" I'm proud of you "

              
              " Watch me! " Children long for someone they love to watch them and offer an approving smile or affirming words. And as they grow up, they long for their parents and grandparents to watch them get good grades, play sports, play in bands, act in plays and go to college....Probably the most powerful thing that you can say to your kids, next to " I love you " is " I'm proud of you ". 
            " I'm proud of you" doesn't only have the power to recognize achievement. That little phrase is concentrated power...an energy boost to encourage people to do more than they thought possible.We all need encouraging gestures of "I'm proud of you"..whether in words, notes or actions...and no matter if we are just starting out in life or businesws and trying to build our confidence or if we've risen to the top. We needed it as a children from our parents, and still need as students from our teachers and coaches, and as adults from our coworkers and supervisors.
              If you are a parent, you have the greatest opportunity to say "I'm proud of you" to your children and an opportunity to have the greatest impact on a person's future success. If you are a teacher, employer or coach, You are encouraged to make "I'm proud of you" to be a part of your daily vocabulary.
               Within each person you meet is a bit of that child or grandchild looking for approval and saying, "Watch me". Are you watching??? Do you notice the achievement.....small or large.....of your family members, friends, neighbours and coworkers or employees??? You can help them grow by tell them...." I'm proud of you! "

" You can do it "

                    
     " What's the most imporant thing a young person should know? "
     " To develop a philosophy of 'You can do it'. Whatever you want to do, you can do it. "

               We are blessed to grow up in a positive atmosphere and possess talents that were God's gifts. Our business started building in our hearts and minds with the encouragement of " You can do it ", and the confidence instilled by loving, positive parents and teachers. That positive phrase has carried around the world to people who have often likely been told they cannot do much of anything. The theme of "You can do it" was incredibly powerful to them!

               You never will discover how far you can go if you dont start "doing it". Otherwise you limit your whole life and will always have regrets and thinkings. When you develop that "can do" attitude, it all happens and the Lord supplies you and begins to give you answers.

               Even if you do it and fail, you have the strenth and the courage to know how far you did get..so that you are going to try again, or do it differently next time, or take on a new job with greater confidence. Think about what you could do and just take a whack at it. Think big!

                Too many people never try to do anything because they are afraid...afraid of failure, that someone might criticize them or laugh at them, that they dont have enough training or expertise. To them...." Set a goal and go for it. You can do it! "

" I believe in you "

                              
                          " Be A Believer = Be A Achiever "

               We cannot achieve our highest goals without believing in ourselves. One of the most effective ways we can have others to achieve their dreams is ti assure them, " I believe in you ".

               "I believe in you" is a more powerful phrase than " You can do it ". A belief in someone is really an extension of the phraseof "You can do it". We typically say "I believe in you" to our family and closed friends. But we need not only say the words. We can demonstrate "I believe in you" through our actions. Sometimes simply our presence at an event or support of a cause says "I believe in you". This also can help u to build a community and really its members to greatness.

                 Believing in ourselves and others is a critical element in the amazing human achievements we see everyday and may take granted. Developing a positive attitude stems from this single-powerful word "believe" and really feeling it in your whole being.

                   We need to believe in the work we are doing or find a different job. We must believe that our nation affords unlimited potential to achieve our dreams and then we must pursue our goals.

                  Just think of who you might set on a new course simply by showing someone you believe in him or her or learning to use the powerful phrase.." I believe in you ".

" I'm Sorry "

           Along with saying "I'm wrong", we have to be sorry for it. By being wrong we may have hurt somebody in the process, so our admission must be more than something teahnical or mechanical...simply saying the other person was right, and we were wrong. It's easy to try to defend our position, but it's amazing how many problems disappear once we decide to say we are sorry. All the anger and emotions fall away.
           The ability to say "I'm sorry" shows that we are able to see the other person's point of view,that we want to maintain a relationship, and that we are not too big to reach out and see the goods in others.An apology is a conscious decision we reach when we have empathy for the feelings of others.
               There are a lot of things you can be sorry about that you are not wrong. Being sorry shows our empathy and humility when we express our condolences for a loss or sympathize with someone's difficulty.
            Life is filled with events for which the phrase "I'm sorry" can be powerful. Expressing these two little words may be difficult at times, but getting into the habit of using this phrase is well worth the risk and will enrich your life and the lives of others.
            Saying " I'm sorry " will validate your concern for them and your desire to patch a relationship that might be damaged or ended simply for the failure to say two words.

" I'm Wrong"...

                " I'm wrong "...This is the hardest of the phrases to say and genuinely mean. It's tough to admit when we are wrong, even to ourselves, and harder still to say out loud. "I'm wrong"..._ especially to those whom we care for most or want most to care about us.
            Although u say some one that you are wrong, saying "I'm wrong" is meaningless unless it comes from our heart, not just from our lips. That often requires a genuine and profound change within ourselves, because we need to accept that we can be wrong.
             Wrongs are ineviitable, and denying their existence only creates arrogance and strife. We are not perfect. Perfectionists face the need to be perfect in all they do. Who could ever live up to such standards?? Laugh at a wrong...laugh at yourself! Your ego will take you too far...but your integrity and huminity will carry you through to success.
            "I'm wrong" is a powerful phrase for positive people because it can wash away the pain of a strained relationship, move a negotation forward, end a argument, start a healing proocess, and even turn turn enemies into friends. It can be a risk for most people. Admitting you are wrong can be a threat to authority and credibility and stature, but most things worth having in life require some risks.
               "I'm wrong" shifts our attitudes and opens us to the benefits of healthy relationships as we look for ways to be positive. What would happen if u said to that person,"I'm wrong, you were right"..?? Try it. You'll find it's not as daunting as you might imagine, and it will keep getting easier.....

10 POWERFUL PHRASES 4 POSITIVE PEOPLE......!!!

           This book is written by " RICH DEVOS "...who was honoured to recieve a "2007 Norman Vincent Peale Award for Positive Thinking". From this book, I got a lot of knowledge of "how to be a positive people"...So, I want to share my knowledge with all of u..
           Today i want to share about "the art of Being Positive"..
           Seeking the positive can require a little energy and some retraining. A positive attitude is a choice, like walking to the other side of a street to avoid trouble or making a 180-degree turn ...when u feel u r headed in the wrong direction.
            A positive frame of mind ahanges u and how u think enabling u to lift up others.  You begin to seek goodness and u'll fell better about everything including urself and the things u r doing..When that happens, you beguin to recognize that good in u and praise u for it. It becomes "self-fulfilling".
             Only a single line can change a person's life. But the question is what kinds of lines are u delivering??? Are u going to create a negative atmosphere or an encouraging atmosphere 4 people??? Are  u going to drag them down or lift them up??? It's as easy as expressing a simple, powerful phrases: "I'm proud of u", "I need u", "I believe in u", "I love u", ... Those can be changing lines for some people. So..they should be in ur mind...and think what our world would be like if anyone took those words to heart...
              Like inspiring presidents and all great leaders, u too can improve conditions when u lift people up and inspire them to do more. Every society needs people who can encourage and stimulate and cheer. They are the ones who make the world run. You can be One of Them!

CYCLE...

    " Help! Help! I cant swim..
     Mom and Dad say..' Do your best'..
     'Does it easy..baby'
     I hear their clapper..
     I know the way but...cant afford it..
     Ocean is pretty 'deep'...
     My Brain is pretty 'low'...
     I'm full of 'sweat'...
     I'm lack of 'wise'...
     If i dont know the way...,
     I'll be still swimming...
    
     Please my Allah....!!!
     I really want to escape from this "cycle"..."